Unleash Your Impact: Overcoming the Fear of Others' Opinions

If you are wanting to make an impact in the world by creation content or offering your services online, you’ll eventually come across people who try to make you feel like sh*t.  

I remember a few years ago when I first started creating content, I feared what people would say.  

I would see other creators putting stuff out see the nasty & heartless comments left by trolls.   

I knew eventually my day would come and committed to never letting anyone else dim my flame.  

Since then, I’ve been called a “Wanna be Tony Robbins” &  “Snake oil salesman”. 

I’ve shared the story of how I took in my (now adopted son) on moment’s notice because he was being neglected and abused by his meth addicted birth parents at the age of 1. I shared how we baked cookies and raised money via Go Fund Me to fight a $90k legal battle to protect him because the state wouldn't.  

The post got 1.4 million views and 99% positive comments, but there were people out there saying I ripped the kid away from his mother or that I was doing it for attention.  

One guy called my followers a bunch of mindless sheep drinking the cool aid.  

I’ve even put out free trainings with a paid upgrade and people missed the ***HUGE BANNER*** that says check your email for free access and then ripped me apart calling me a fraud and a scam because they thought I was charging.  

When I post ads, I’ll get stuff like this: “There is no market for the services of self-proclaimed coaches with no legitimate credentials, and the service of phony coaching gurus will not change that.” 

I’m about 3 years into my online journey now and it feels pretty good to say…. 

I don’t give a f*ck about what others think about me.  

That doesn’t mean I don’t care about others, hopefully you know I care IMMENSELY and am committed to helping people level up.  

It means I’m not going to let my fear of the small group of trolls that say things about me get in the way of me making a bigger impact in the world. 

I don’t want YOU to hold yourself back either. You have gifts and talents to share with the world.  

Here’s the thing, when someone trolls you or leaves nasty comments, it’s about THEM and not about you. 

All the stuff I posted above were from people who don’t know me. 

I don’t even feel a sting anymore and I even laugh at some of the comments because they are so absurd! 

YOU have something beautiful to share with the world. You have an Impact to make!  

YOU cannot let the fear of what other people think put a lid on what you have to create.  

So, here’s the deal, I just posted a short video on this topic that talks about WHY we care so much about what others think of us and 3 habits you can implement today to boost your confidence and start building your NGAF (not giving AF) muscles! 

I want you to unleash yourself, be unapologetically you! Stop the procrastination. Stop the perfection. Start taking messy action and you’ll find there are far more people out there willing to support you, and I’ll be your biggest cheerleader! 

No go forth and make your mark in the world!

Warning: Don't watch this video if you get offended by F-bombs:)

Watch Now! Stop Giving AF About What Others Think!